It is no secret that any real estate investment require a 20% down. There are unique scenarios in which this requirement is not necessary, house- hacks or multi-family units which will require a larger down payment.
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In the last 12 months I’ve been in contact with large financial institutes and smaller ones like credit unions. While credit unions offer great benefits, I will explore one powerful perk relating to real estate investment only.
One great opportunity to reduce the amount of down payment needed.
This one really has me excited! You might not need 20% down payment if your potential property appraises for more than your agreed upon purchase price.
Suppose you find the property matching your needs. The right number of rooms, great property location, and most importantly it nets a monthly positive cash flow!
The agreed upon transaction price is $100,000 and the property appraises at $103,000. You are already $3,000 out in front of the down payment. Here’s where the you gain a tangible, immediate return on your property.
That $3,000 now becomes part of your down payment!
How this benefits you.
There are 2 immediate and 1 BONUS results.
Smaller down payment. Your out of pocket down payment is now $17,000 (20,000 down payment – 3,000 delta in purchase and appraised value = $17,000 out of pocket).
You realize a greater return. Your cash on cash return is calculated on the $17,000 down payment.
BONUS- Credit union service fees are less.
Not many lending institutions, some credit unions included, facilitate this.
As you can read, the mentioned results are reasons why credit unions are your town’s best kept secrets.
So what happens after your offer is accepted? I hope you’re making plans to have a home inspection done by a professional. This is a very critical step to ensure you get the most of your home purchase.
Below Josh Sorrels, with Texan Home Inspections, answers 10 common questions about the home inspection process.
1. On average what is the cost for a thorough home inspection?
The cost varies depending on the square footage of the home and additional services requested. (Ex: pool/spa, WDI, crawl space) Most home inspections start around $350. We want to make sure that we are providing superior service by allotting ample time and attention to each unique property.
2. Who should request one?
Everyone. A home inspection isn’t about checking off boxes. It’s about protecting your investment, feeling confident that your family is safe, and making informed decisions about future out-of-pocket expenses and potential upgrades.
3. When would a buyer not need one?
On the rare occasion that someone is purchasing a home from their parents or a family member, they may choose to forgo a home inspection due to the fact that they are already familiar with the property. However, we strongly recommend, even if merely for insurance, warranty, or documentation purposes, that each real estate transaction accompany a thorough inspection by a licensed inspector. It’s a small investment that could save you from a huge headache down the road.
4. How often are the codes updated?
It varies. Codes are evaluated and adopted by TREC regularly depending on changes in building materials, technology, improvements in construction, and government regulation. Inspectors are required to attend continuing education classes to stay informed of any updates.
5. What are some repairs you would encourage a professional technician?
Throughout the inspection report you will see recommendations that state the need for a “certified professional” to replace or repair deficiencies. It doesn’t mean that it has to be done today, we just suggest reaching out to an expert if you choose to have these items remedied or updated. However, anything in the electrical section of the report should be handled by a certified electrician, always. We want to make sure your home is safe and secure above all else. Talk with the inspector and have them walk you through their findings as it relates to typical wear and tear versus a safety hazard.
6. Any DIY repairs acceptable?
The issue we come across with DIY repairs is that everyone has a different level of expertise when it comes to home improvements. Again, my best advice is to talk with your inspector face-to-face or over the phone and ask them questions about any deficiencies marked on the report. There are items we are legally required to cite, but are by no means a “deal breaker.”
7. Can a buyer request their own inspector or does the realtor / agent have the authority?
Inspections are paid for by the buyer, so they can pick whichever inspector they would like to work with. Realtors are a great resource to ask for recommendations since they work with many inspectors on a regular basis. Ultimately, it’s a great idea to see which inspectors are available and willing to give their clients the absolute best service.
8. What are major findings that can cause some issues down the road?
The “big five” fall under what some inspectors call a five point inspection. If your inspector marks deficiencies with the foundation, plumbing, electrical, HVAC, or roof, it’s a good idea to have these evaluated by a licensed professional before the expiration of the buyer’s option period.
9. How Is the home inspection different on an existing home vs a new build.
With existing homes, we have to take into consideration the building codes adopted when the home was built. We may have to mark something deficient due to the current year’s codes that simply didn’t exist twenty or thirty years ago. Most inspectors will explain these changes, but don’t be afraid to ask about how the building codes and expectations have changed since the home was built. Both buyers and inspectors expect to see more “normal wear and tear” documented on existing homes than new builds.
10. These are questions coming from buyer/seller perspective. Do you have any additional insight into the home inspection process?
Go to the last 30 minutes of the inspection. Ask questions. Find an inspector who is willing to make sure you feel comfortable with your purchase. They have the best insight into the place you’re about to call home. If you have any questions about what to expect from the home inspection process, we are here to help.
Disclosure- I have hired Josh’s service to for a pre-drywall inspection.
The home-buying process doesn’t have to be a difficult one. That’s why it’s important to have the right lender on your side when you apply for a joint mortgage.
Are credit unions any different from the traditional banking branches?
This was a question I had for Jennifer Lopez, Mortgage Loan Officer at Texas Tech Credit Union.
She mentioned that “CREDIT UNIONS as a whole are way better than larger banks. We have more flexibility, lower interest rates and lower fees. And all of our staff is onsite, so it makes it easy for me to converse with my team on a deal to make sure it will work. At the Texas Tech Credit Union, it is ALL ABOUT THE CUSTOMER!!!”
I will have to agree that being onsite with the rest of her team can expedite the application process. Quick and timely communication is important.
My personal experience has been at a large and smaller bank/ credit union. They both provided a great lending experience with responsive communication and easy to use online loan application.
I have to say it was convenient being able to step into the TTFCU branch without having to make an appointment.
Delays can be avoided
“Some common delays we see are when the buyers do not let us know who they are going to use for homeowner’s insurance in time to pull together final numbers for closing. Closings can be delayed for this reason. Also, not having sufficient funds for closing already available and seasoned in your bank account”, Jennifer mentions.
When applying for a joint mortgage it is important that you both provide the information in a timely manner. Gather the required documents and submit via the online portal or email the PDF files.
I encourage you to shop around for home-owners insurance but make sure you’ve narrowed it down to a couple to make the transaction as smooth as possible.
I have found that bundling insurance is going to provide the best price.
Which mortgage term is best?
Ready to apply for your mortgage
I asked Jennifer what are some DO’s and DON’Ts when applying for a mortgage.
DO: ASK! Once you’re pre-qualified make sure you run all questions by your lender. Don’t be caught off guard when it comes to your credit.
DON’T: Jennifer was adamant about not financing any furniture, cars or ANYTHING!
I have heard from parties, realtors, sellers, realtors, how the above can cause some delays. I use the word “delay” lightly. It makes for some uncomfortable discussions. Closing dates, moving schedules, leasing terms are all issues you’re likely to see.
Apparently it is common.
Sure you can afford it but do you need it.
Consider the term “house-poor”. You will find yourself pushing the budget when you start walking houses.
It is tempting. Stick to that original figure you first worked out.
Last thing you want to have is a mortgage payment that exceeds 35% of your gross pay. That will leave less money to handle the other ncessities and fewer and fewer wants.
The 35% is a figure I’m comfortable with but you need to calculate that ratio for yourself.
Jennifer can provide in greater detail your debt ratio for the loan application.
Seasoning your credit
It happens! You may find that you’re not immediately ready to qualify for a loan. Don’t let this squash your dreams of home ownership. There are solutions.
Jennifer mentioned it might be helpful to get a secured credit card. This can help in preparing your credit for a mortgage loan.
“Obviously making timely payments to ALL creditors you owe money to is very important. I’m always happy to do credit evaluations though for further guidance.”
Get in touch with Jennifer for your pre-qualification mortgage.
Congrats! You decided to take the plunge and start looking for your forever home. The preparation is not complicated when you understand the home buying process.
Consider the listed information below.
How Much Can You Afford
Consider how much you can afford. A recommendation is to purchase a house that will not exceed 25-30% of your take home pay. Lenders will use the gross income to calculate your mortgage but you can see how this will inflated. When you budget make sure you use your take home income.
You will need to include the mortgage, property taxes, insurance, and/or HOA fees when determining how much you can afford. Remember you don’t want to be ‘house-poor” meaning you have a large monthly payment causing you to miss other obligations.
How Much Cash Will You Need
For first time homebuyers you can ask about a Federal Housing Administration loan (FHA). This loan will require a low down payment of 3.5%.
You can also do 5, 10, or 20% Down payment if you qualify for a conventional loan. Keep in mind with a 20 percent down you will not need to pay a private mortgage insurance.
Conventional 15yr term or conventional 30yr term- You need to consider how long you will live in the house. If this is a starter home and you plan to live in it for 5-10 years I would go with a 30yr mortgage. Your monthly payments will be smaller, $300-600 less a month when compared to a 15yr note.
A 15yr mortgage will require a larger monthly payment but you will payoff much sooner and save lots thousands of dollars.
Choose a bi-weekly payment schedule for either a 15yr or 30yr mortgage. This will save thousands of dollars in interest over the term.
You can choose a 1% deductible to cover you property. This will cover larger expenses like busted water lines, hail damage, mother nature, and fire to name a few. If you want to lower your monthly payment you can choose a 2% deductible. Visit with your insurance company to run the figures.
I would visit with a few realtors before working with one. Ask them questions like the number of houses they’ve sold, how long they’ve been a realtor, and this will give you an idea on how they’ll perform.
Realtors work for you and are well-versed in the home buying process. You will find most are very responsive to your texts or calls.
Don’t be afraid to “fire” a realtor if they are not living up to your expectations. Start the hiring process all over again.
After you have determined how much you can afford you will need to work with a bank to pre-qualify. Most realtors want to know your qualified and will ask if you have a pre-qualification letter.
But even if you’re not pre-qualified don’t let this hold you back from scheduling house tours. Don’t let the qualification process scare you. It is fairly simple as everything is done online.
It’s ok to shop around for a better interest rate. So line up a couple of lending institutes. Rates are fairly low you can get a 3.5% on a 30yr or 2.75% on a 15yr mortgage.
During this process keep in mind:
`Don’t apply for any other loans, i.e. car loans, furniture, credit cards
`Make large deposits in your personal accounts
Your First Home Selection
When choosing houses you want your property to be comparable to the houses in the neighborhood. You don’t want to purchase the most expensive house on the block. If you have to move or decide to sell you may not have enough equity in your house.
The housing market has been competitive and houses are not staying on the market very long. Be cautious of houses that are on the market for extended periods of time. That should set off a caution flag for several reasons: foundation or structure issues, major renovations needed, or neighborhood is questionable.
Home inspection after an offer is accepted
Home inspections are well worth the money and a must-have for home purchase. The fees on an inspection range from $300-$500. Take time to do a walk-through with the home inspector. I find this part to be very satisfying as it provides me a detailed condition of the home.
After you have the inspection report take the time to review it. This is the tricky part. What should you ask for when it comes time to negotiate? This is where first time home buyers struggle. Make sure not to ask for every item listed on the report to be repaired. This will most likely turn off the buyer. This holds true in a very hot market.
If there are major issues feel free to bring those up. The buyer will likely make the repair or make a price concession. However, if you ask for paint color or carpet allowances the buyer will make the process difficult.
In addition to your down payment you will need additional cash to close on your purchase. This will typically be 5% of the purchase price and will be required before you get your keys. The closing cost can be negotiated so go ahead and ask.
The lender will provide a detailed cost estimate and identifies services you can shop for. Some include the home inspection and survey. Non-negotiable fees can include document fees.
Like the house make the offer
I will suggest that if you loved the house go ahead and make an offer. When it is a sellers market the seller will typically have 2-3 offers within a few hours!
Make sure you come in with a competitive offer to keep the seller interested. Trust me it is much easier to for the seller to come to the negotiating table when they have a respectable offer versus a low-ball offer.
How quickly can you move in
The excitement is everywhere! The last leg is where you might see delays. The lender will schedule an appraisal of the property and it will depend on the how busy the appraisers are.
Cheers! You have now been brought up to speed on choosing a realtor, best down payments options and standing out with with a competitive offer. Best of luck on buying your first home!
The material presented is meant to be informative and is not intended to serve as legal, tax, or other financial advice related to individual situations.
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How to make money as a kid with proven ideas from easy to more technical.
If you’re anything like my 11 year old daughter you’re probably asking for ways to make money so that you can buy legos, games, or apparel. While parents don’t mind providing for your necessities we want you to learn how to make money while you’re young. This is the time to explore, develop skills, and use your passions to make a little spending money.
This list is something my daughter and I have been working on for the last few years. It started when she participated in a community activity to show and encourage kids to participate in entrepreneurship. This was a fun activity we were all able to do as a family with the ability to generate a little money.
Parent cue —> How Money Smart Are You?
The list below was put together in order of ease-of-implementation. Remember the goal is to make money in a safe and easy way. You should not expect to spend lots of money to buy your materials. The idea is to use your current items or talents/know-how to make money.
Parents this should require minimal supervision on your part.
Sell your used stuff
The first is to gather your old, unused toys. Your closets are probably full to toys you no longer play with. Have your parent list them on trading up sites. This is a quick and easy way to get your room organized and make some money.
Ask your parents to create an eBay account and the same can be done here. Do the same for the gaming systems you no longer and your gently used clothing. Also, remember to take key quality pictures before uploading your products.
House / Pet sit
Offer to pickup your neighbors mail, water their plant, or keep an eye on their house while they are out of town. Do that enough times and you will be the go-to house sitter expert.
You don’t even need a stand to sell the lemonade. The neighborhood kids will stand on their yard and shout, “lemonade”! Sell the 8oz cup for $1 and offer additional goodies to go with the lemonade.
Parent Cue –> you might want to make sure the product tastes yummy.
Maintaining yards involve cleaning flower beds, removing trash, and of course mowing. Don’t have a mower? You can plan to borrow the home-owners equipment and do the gig.
A personal favorite of mine is to keep an eye out for houses listed for sale. You can then text the listing agent and offer to mow or keep the yard tidy. This works best where the house is empty.
Other ideas for kids to make money
The list below will require some technical know-how and manual or power tools.
Parent cue –> please plan to assist and supervise your kids while they do these activities.
There are free websites that will allow you to upload a picture and create a gif. Plan to advertise on Facebook and ask for a picture to convert. You then upload the picture to the website and download the gif. The gif will then be sold.
Make wooden signs
You can create custom wooden signs. The easiest method to do this is to buy wooden pickets and paint them a solid color. You can join the 3 pickets by using wooden glue, a small wooden piece for the back and some wood screws or nails.
Then select the stencils to create custom and one of a kind signs. You can buy stencils at your local craft store. Go to your favorite social media site and advertise the signs.
Have a knack for baking? Consider selling your cakes for birthday parties. Nothings says unique like a cake baked by a loved one. Have your parents participate in this activity.
Offer customized goodies
An idea is to offer to customize your friends bags or student’s mask coverings. A cricut is not a must-have to do this. You can purchase iron-on material and use your creative skills to draw on the material and then use scissors to cut your masterpiece.
After cutting you can have your parent help to iron the design on the item.
That’s it! Pretty easy ways to make some money if you’re a kid. Notice some require little effort while others will need a little more time. Keep in mind that all these ideas will help develop some skills, i.e. communication, sales, profits/loss to name a few.
I never received an allowance and neither should my kids. My logic sounds silly right?
But have you considered how an unconditional allowance is causing damage to your children’s ability to handle money?
Let’s define unconditional allowance. This is defined as an allowance given to the child without them having done any task or chore to receive it.
I didn’t received an allowance for the chores I should be able to to. This was my contribution to my parent’s house. My spending money came during the summers when I would hoe cotton fields in West Texas. Character-building they called it.
When my kids were younger I struggled on whether they should receive an allowance. Our goal as parents should be to have our children be financially savvy and come to appreciate the work that needs to happen to earn a dollar.
Allowances and Entitlement Attitude
I believe that kids that receive an allowance without having “earned” it have an entitlement attitude. I recall some of my childhood friends who received an allowance and as young adults they struggled mightily in developing a health work ethic and meeting their obligations.
Curious if your poor performers where recipients of an unconditional allowance? They believe just showing up is enough to receive their paycheck. Unfortunately I don’t have the research to draw that comparison but it would make sense.
I still don’t provide a my kids an allowance for doing chores. They both know they can come to me and ask for spending money. I won’t always say yes but will encourage them to find ways to generate that money.
Either the yard needs to be mowed or my blog needs proofreading. The 11 year does a good job of that. The younger one will realize she needs to go above and beyond her chores to earn that money. To my surprise she’ll do just that by doing that extra, like vacuuming, without us having told her.
Why so strict?
Kids are resilient. They will find a means to generate spending money. I am teaching my children to find an opportunity/ need and meet that need. Recently, my 11 year old was making wooden signs and successfully sold all of them!
This proved to be a wonderful learning experience for her. She learned break-even point, revenues, margins, and tools that will benefit her throughout her life.
I grew in a household where money was scarse. This limited my world-view and believed many of the myths associated with wealth people. I have taken the initiative to teach my girls an abundance mindset.
An abundance mindset that says that what flows out their hands will come back. A mindset that teaches them to see every transaction as a learning opportunity.
How this psychological behavior is causing you to lose lots of dollars
Loss aversion: the pain of losing is twice as strong as the gain
Hey, did you notice an increase in your paystub? You may want to check it out. If you did, you are part of the 90 percent of Americans who will have experienced a positive net gain in their take home money.
But have you given much thought to what you will do with that extra money?
Chances are you haven’t given it much thought. Honestly, I have not done much with mine yet.
Unfortunately, you and I will struggle to save that extra income because it is so much fun to spend rather than save. Who can relate?
Wait, I have a mental condition?
Yes, we all do! There is a psychological behavior that will keep you from saving. This behavior is known as loss aversion, or the hate of losing.
We know we need to do something smart with that little extra money and yet we choose to do nothing. This same behavior is seen in different areas of one’s life: health, spiritual well-being, education, and list continues.
We know the benefits gained from each of these actions are great, but the pain of losing time, money, relationships, or other resources will keep you from taking action.
Look around your influential circle of friends and you may see the benefits experienced by overcoming loss aversion. These benefits did not happen overnite. They took action!
Now that we know that loss aversion keeps us from investing let’s explore the two solutions
The more steps or actions an activity requires the less likely we are to take a step forward to bettering ourselves. For example, we need to get in shape and for some reason we believe we need a new workout wardrobe, hire a trainer, and post your accomplishments.
These are but a few things that keep you from taking action. So many unwritten rules to follow it seems. But disregard those and get going.
Let’s look at savings and retirement
The lingo alone will drive one insane! Annual percentage rate, annual percentage yield, certificates of deposit or CD, bonds, IRA, 401K, etc etc!
According to a report, 50 percent of Americans don’t participate in their 401Ks and reasons stated include: feeling overwhelmed with the many choices, laziness, and struggle with deposits.
I remember feeling all the mentioned emotions as I enrolled in my company 401K. Trying to be in compliance with company policies, understand vacation policy and now 401K!
The struggle was real and I’m glad I took that plunge. I was afraid to ask questions. Here’s an MBA student who has no idea how to invest, I thought they would say. I had no idea or direction and no one to turn to.
My experiences have shown that the first step you take, is the most important one. Over time you will become more educated and can make wiser choices in your finances.
Turn the challenges into solutions
You might have heard the acronym KISS- Keep It Simple Silly. Try taking advantage of automatic contributions. Let the accounts withdraw from your check before you have time to spend it. If you don’t see it you will not miss it.
Understand as you save more it does not necessarily mean you will spend less. If you have a budget in place this will keep you focused on your goals. I’m old school and prefer to look at spreadsheets when using my budget. There are apps that keep this process simple. Don’t see saving or investing as a present loss but a future gain or victory. Keep focused on your goals.
We are visual creatures. We like wooing and awwing over beautifully created pictures. I can spend hours on hours looking through Pinterest and Instagram. Do the same for your finances. Use visuals rather than figures to help you achieve goals.
For example, instead on fixating on a $500,000 retirement, use visuals that that money will help you reach. Visuals such as vacations, nicer home, or activities you enjoy doing with your family and friends.
Don’t allow loss aversion keep you from achieving your goals. Learn to focus on the gains and not what you will be losing. Remember the pain of losing needs to be dealt with.
Keep reminding yourself of the benefits or gains you will be able to enjoy.
How have you been able to overcome loss aversion? Care to share?
Kaizen is a well accepted business principal that seeks to improve inefficient practices in industries like manufacturing, logistics, and sales. And now Kaizen Tools have been adopted in the other self improvement fields like personal finances.
The self improvement fields include:
Health and Fitness
Kaizen for Productivity and Business
The Kaizen principal is about focusing on the minutiae. The idea is that one small change makes a huge difference. It breaks down the job or task into multiple process and then evaluates each process for waste or inefficiencies.
The eliminating of waste speeds up your process. The change is then made and will be monitored before proceeding to the next process.
2 Powerful Kaizen Tools
Consider these two powerful tools to improve your personal finances: force multiplier and automation. Both achieve similar results and your risk-tolerance will depend on the tool you choose.
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Kaizen Tools For Personal Finances
Automation is using software to automate and will include automatic transfers. Set up automatic investment for your retirement accounts. Enroll in your company sponsored accounts and opt-in for the yearly 1% contribution increases. Take advantage of your health savings accounts (HSA). These HSA offers tax advantages throughout your life.
Another example of automation is to create an effective spending plan. Capture all your expenses at the beginning of your pay period and monitor it as you go. Plan to tweak your spending plan a few times before you can set it on auto pilot.
I will not be one to tell you can’t have the latte or avocado toast. I don’t believe these goodies will keep your from being wealthy.
Force multipliers can be describe as tools that help accomplish your desired goals. If you prefer to handle cash you can use envelope system to handle your plan. You can plan to keep cash for gasoline, groceries, fun activities, etc.
We started out with an envelope system and would later go to an automated one. The idea was to get comfortable handling cash and understanding how our expenses would fluctuate.
Another example of a force multiplier can be a certified financial planner. The CFP depicts a tool that will amplify your production output, i.e. gains and dividends. Most CFP will not charge an upfront fee but rather they are paid by commission by the investment firm.
Kaizen Tools in Your Retirement Accounts
Automation can also provide net worth building gains. Here you think of diversification through mutual funds, company sponsored accounts, and individual retirement accounts. Diversification will allow you to weather the ups and downs of the markets.
The method can be considered passive income as you don’t have to talk with your broker or review anything. I don’t recommend you completely ignore your retirement accounts though.
Force multiplier is a tool that can help you achieve great wealth but comes with greater risk. Think individual stocks here. If you put all your earnings in a one individual stock the capital gains are impressive in a bull market.
Now when a bear market roars around the risk is great. Stocks in major oil companies, airlines, and restaurant chains have taken a huge loss and have offset previous gains.
The popularity of commission-free trading has open the door for many novice traders. I consider myself a novice and invest an amount that will not hurt too much if my portfolio has great losses.
Wrapping it up
Kaizen tools are effective in managing your personal finances and creating wealth. The tools discussed include automation and force multiplier and are but a couple of tools that Kaizen offers.
However, regardless of the tools used they will require you your buy-in. You must dedicate time to achieve your desired results.
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Jay Martinez wrote a great piece about millennials being ready to make a difference. Check it out here. He pointed out that millennials are willing to step up when the church invests in them. Are you ready?
The Good News
So you might have been approached by someone in the church asking to volunteer or help out in some capacity. Chances are you’re feeling excited and believe you’re ready to make the jump and volunteer.
Congrats! Let me share 5 suggestions that will allow you to enjoy ministry to its fullest and at the same time prevent you from experiencing burning out. Yes, volunteers will at some point feel overwhelmed and burned out.
Your volunteering metamorphosis will unfold in the following pattern. The person who asked you to volunteer will be very helpful in providing direction and guidance. After a while you will begin to wonder, “Where is all the help!” The person who asked you to volunteer will have probably been burned out themselves. The freshly recruited volunteer, YOU, is the getaway opportunity they saw and took. Remember this is not a reflection on their spiritual maturity so don’t be to harsh when left alone wondering where to go now.
Here are 5 Suggestions You Can Start to Practice Before Volunteering
1. TAKE YOUR TIME
I’m often in awe of those individuals that join a church and can immediately plug in to a ministry and they excel at it! Others will jump into as many opportunities as asked to and unfortunately for both, the church and the volunteer, they will slowly start to fade. They will start to be absentee in their ministry and eventually their church attendance will suffer. The church body would rather see you in the seats, listening and growing, rather than not attending at all. On the flip side, if you have been in church for several years you’ve had plenty of time 🙂
2. DON’T ACCEPT EVERY REQUEST
Don’t rush into everything and anything that you are asked to do. Remember, you have an idea of what needs your time and by taking extra opportunities you will be stretched too thin. Out of all your priorities one will suffer and more often the ministry will be left unattended. This will be a good time to evaluate your priorities and shed those time-consuming affairs. Those that don’t add any value.
3. ASK FOR HELP
When suddenly you are left alone with a roomful of loving kiddos you need to ask for help. Don’t let this fester and bring it to the attention of your ministry leaders. The last thing any church parents want is the kid’s ministry to become a Sunday daycare.
4. SET BOUNDARIES
Not sure about your spiritual gifts? Churches offer spiritual gifts sessions and those are great. I believe in application as well and you might want to try out different opportunities to explore those gifts. If you decide to do this I strongly encourage you to set boundaries. For example you can say, “ I plan to serve in this capacity for 6 months” or “ I can only serve 1 Sunday a month”, etc. You set the time-frame. This will allow the seeker to plan accordingly.
5. IT’S OK TO SAY NO
Hear me on this- You can say no and it is perfectly fine! I understand you don’t like to disappoint but master this pointer and you’ll be spectacular . No one will be offended if you say no. They will respect that you value your time and theirs. You may not be ready and it’s ok to voice that. Leave yourself an opening if that is an area that interests you.
Summary of the 5 Suggestions I shared for a successful volunteer career
Take your time
Don’t accept every request
Ask for Help
It’s Ok to say No
These suggestions came at my expense and at the disappointment of others. I felt obligated to help out as much as possible and the time requirements took their toll on me. It wasn’t until later in my spiritual walk that I learned how to kindly and respectfully decline volunteer opportunities. I shared the suggestions to encourage you to get involve and go about it in a strategic manner.
I’ll leave you with the following comment:
Be a specialist and not a generalist. Be spectacular and caring in one ministry rather than general and unspectacular in many.